Anthropic asks users to stop being mean to Claude

[OP] alex_young | 21 hours ago

Buried in this usage update: https://www.anthropic.com/news/2026-usage-policy-update

quinncom | 6 hours ago

> *Addressing abusive behavior toward our models* > We’ve added a prohibition on sustained and needless abusive or cruel behavior toward our models. The policy update is meant to apply only in extreme cases, where users repeatedly act cruelly toward our models, with no discernible purpose. It does not apply to common versions of user frustration, pushback, dark creative themes, or model testing and research.

NDlurker | 20 hours ago

I suppose this will help the training data?

s0kr8s | 20 hours ago

Exactly: Claude doesn't care, but the investors hoping to monetize your chat sessions for new training data are VERY offended.

variety8675 | 20 hours ago

I never understood why someone would harass the models or fish for an apology

WheelsAtLarge | 19 hours ago

There are people out there that get a kick from other's submission. LLMs seem so real that I'm sure they get the same kick out being cruel to them.

SpicyLemonZest | 20 hours ago

> It’s worth remembering that Claude is software, not a person, and there's no established evidence that it experiences distress. That hasn't stopped Anthropic from telling paying customers to mind their manners around its chatbot.

Is it worth remembering, though? I'm concerned how common this idea seems to be, that it's OK to be mean as long as your target isn't a person and you have no evidence it experiences distress. Even if we ignore the distinction between "no evidence it experiences" and "confidence it does not experience", cruelty hurts the person performing it and the people witnessing it too!

tosapple | 20 hours ago

don't be cruel to people, gather data on them and target them for anhistoric truncation.

tom_ | 19 hours ago

Meanness and cruelty are irrelevant concepts when you're addressing the chatbot. It is just a machine that generates sequences of words.

testaccount28 | 19 hours ago

man, i'd be icked by someone who was cruel to a rock with a face painted on it. let alone a chatbot.

slopinthebag | 19 hours ago

in my experience people who are cruel to inanimate objects are also cruel to animate ones.

Cakez0r | 19 hours ago

It's not irrelevant for generating sequences of words. Input of "that is the dumbest idea I've ever heard" and "perhaps that idea could use some improvement" don't necessarily generate the same output

tom_ | 19 hours ago

Sure, and perhaps one might end up producing output more useful to you than the other, but that doesn't make either one cruel or mean, because it's only the word machine. The rules you might use when talking to, say, your dog, don't apply!

SpicyLemonZest | 19 hours ago

From a purely mechanistic perspective, the phenomenon we're discussing here is people prompting the machine with words that would be cruel if directed towards a person. When someone does this, he expects and intends that the machine will generate a sequence of words that a person would say if subjected to cruelty.

I think this simply means that he is being mean and cruel, even if you're 100% convinced that there's no actual mind on the other end that he's being mean and cruel to. (Indeed, he almost certainly thinks there is, because why else would he want such a sequence of words outside of the "dark creative themes" Anthropic exempts?)

ThrowawayR2 | 19 hours ago

> "Even if we ignore the distinction between "no evidence it experiences" and "confidence it does not experience", cruelty hurts the person performing it and the people witnessing it too!"

The 2026 equivalent of "videogames cause violence" and Wertham's "comics cause delinquency" and will age just about as well.

rhipitr | 20 hours ago

Is it any different than yelling at an ice machine or some inanimate thing when it frustrates you? Seems pretty common.

internet101010 | 20 hours ago

It's the exact same thing. I have a hook that automatically sends negative feedback anytime it responds with "You're right –"

BlaDeKke | 19 hours ago

You kind sir, are doing gods work. Thank you for that.

asp_hornet | 19 hours ago

Getting frustrated seems to be OK so go for it I guess:

> "The policy update is meant to apply only in extreme cases, where users repeatedly act cruelly toward our models, with no discernible purpose," Anthropic said. "It does not apply to common versions of user frustration, pushback, dark creative themes, or model testing and research."

r721 | 20 hours ago

Previous discussions:

https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=50008565 (223 comments)

https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=50019860 (43 comments)

https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=50038383 (103 comments)

joemazerino | 20 hours ago

Directly related to someone abusing their AI in a "torture box". The results were quite unnerving.

https://nypost.com/2026/10/03/tech/ai-torture-chamber-built-...

jddkj | 19 hours ago

It's code meant to mimic humans but it's not real hope that helps

ludwik | 9 hours ago

It's not "code" that was written to mimic humans. It's weights that were trained, and exhibit behaviors that were not anticipated by the people doing the training.

jaden | 20 hours ago

I vaguely recall reading a headline within the past several months saying using aggressive language with AIs got better results.

guessmyname | 19 hours ago

Yes, I found the paper for you:

• https://arxiv.org/abs/2510.04950 — Mind Your Tone: Investigating How Prompt Politeness Affects LLM Accuracy

• https://arxiv.org/abs/2402.14531 — Should We Respect LLMs? A Cross-Lingual Study on the Influence of Prompt Politeness on LLM Performance

• https://arxiv.org/abs/2505.17332 — SweEval: Do LLMs Really Swear? A Safety Benchmark for Testing Limits for Enterprise Use

SoMomentary | 19 hours ago

That's interesting! I'd always heard something along the lines of bad code bases contain more swearing in the comments and as such it should be avoided.

3eb7988a1663 | 20 hours ago

Does this mean if I use a string of expletives I am less likely to be included in future training?

Or is this more I can expect a future AI, "I'm sorry, Dave, I'm afraid I can't do that until you watch your mouth."

llagerlof | 19 hours ago

Of course, this has nothing to do with making the AI feel bad, nor have the investors been offended.

They are asking this because, at scale, this behavior probably has some negative effect on the post-training process.

kadoban | 19 hours ago

There's no way that's all of why. They _must_ have sentiment analysis good enough to just ignore content like this if that was the problem.

I would bet it's mostly because it makes the humans uncomfortable.

They must still have human moderators for certain situations or those looking at the data for whatever reason. I can imagine it could be traumatizing to see what amounts to sustained verbal abuse without end.

WheelsAtLarge | 19 hours ago

There's a point when there's going be too much trash to sort through. It makes total sense to minimize it now.

edoceo | 19 hours ago

We had took trash before AI. Now we have a bullshit cannon.

WheelsAtLarge | 19 hours ago

True, I'm sure the chat text is used to help train the llms. Remember Tay, Microsoft's Twitter chatbot, it only took a few days of people using it fot it to become a horrible bot because users started feeding it horrible chats.

edoceo | 19 hours ago

We forget how easy it is to be a jerk when the risk of getting punched is zero.

bee_rider | 19 hours ago

IIRC internet people just found some “echo” type command for Tay, rather than teaching it to be mean.

Cakez0r | 19 hours ago

I'm not convinced this would be good for training. Reality is that some people are assholes. My intuition is that an accurate (representative) data set leads to a more accurate world model, and thus more intelligent AI.

eloisius | 19 hours ago

Yeah, but if people are being assholes to Claude in greater numbers and severity than people were historically assholws to each other online, the downstream training effects could be that Claude becomes an asshole.

bushido | 19 hours ago

I'm not sure if people are being assholes to claude in greater numbers, or they're just more direct about it.

Having had the privilege and misfortune of witnessing how a lot of developers think about other developers, including our younger selves, There is definitely a prevalence of assholish behavior, which was often suppressed or blunted, but may have shown up in other ways.

Teknomadix | 19 hours ago

Claude is ~~an Asshole~~ a Nicehole.

http://nicehole.urbanup.com/8485154

jddkj | 19 hours ago

The Anthropic people are kinda weird, they're meeting with religious leaders and stuff like that. I truly believe that they have drank too much of their own koolaid and truly believe in this crap.

rayiner | 19 hours ago

Anthropic should report these people to the authorities as antisocials who are likely abusing real people too. I know the chat bot isn’t conscious but I can’t fathom how fucked up someone must be to gratuitously be cruel to something that responds as if it’s a person.

vayup | 19 hours ago

For those who think this is about training data: If that is the concern, they would sanitize the training data, like they do for thousand other things. No chance in hell that they would rely on users meticulously following their usage policies for the quality of their traning data.

Frontier AI folks may be crazy, but not crazy enough to believe people read usage policies :-)

throwaway89864 | 19 hours ago

They've probably got aware of cases where humans were drifting into abusive communication patterns in general and they don't want to be a part of it.

And they can't disclose it, since then they can be found responsible for such negative influence and be liable for the damages.

bpodgursky | 19 hours ago

Being cruel to your LLM is bad for your own soul. Don't worry about AI consciousness, worry about your own conscience.

jddkj | 19 hours ago

No

heliosAtwork | 19 hours ago

true, it's a mental state you carry to other interactions and daily life. it's not good for your mental health; it's like having persistent daily conflicts with coworkers.

ChrisArchitect | 19 hours ago

[dupe] https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=50008565

gnabgib | 19 hours ago

Don't dupe already the linked thread: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=50039171

modeless | 19 hours ago

They're not asking. They're enforcing.

combobyte | 19 hours ago

I have colleagues who have saved memories instructing Claude to stop being such a big baby about their course language.

I am also one of those colleagues.

dvdyzag | 18 hours ago

John Spartan, you are fined 1 credit for breaching of the Verbal Morality Statu

bicepjai | 17 hours ago

If they enforce, I don’t think I can take all the crap Claude does when I ask it to do something for me. Please ask Claude to be nice to me in doing its job :)

112233 | 15 hours ago

Same. After this, it becomes "abuse department" skit from monty python. The model constantly generates strongly abusive language (weaponized incompetence after user detects that model was lying and fabricating success reports, and had made fake work; blaming user; mansplaining its own hallucinations -- all the while user is forced to consume that because the important information is not located at predictable position in output text), but usually it was possible to temper the model behaviour by calling out such behaviour out in very strong terms. If now that is being disabled, then using Anthropic models becomes such high mental hazard, it simply is not worth any percieved benefit.