'One evening, in a bright room about 10 minutes north of Brighton beach, Asha’s therapist told her to suckle on his arm. She had started seeing Gerald Peck a few weeks earlier, in the summer of 2020, when she had found herself struggling with her mental health. “In our first meeting he said, ‘Why didn’t you come sooner?’” she told me recently.
Peck, who was in his 70s, with a smooth bald head, white moustache and boxer’s nose, explained that he used a kind of “regressive therapy” that allowed “younger parts of yourself to emerge,” allowing them to be healed. He told Asha he worked “until he was holding your tiny infant self, and then your foetal self – helping you heal wounds from your very, very early life.” It was the beginning of the pandemic. Asha was lonely and in pain and “needed some healing,” she told me. That was why, soon after she had detailed to him her complex history of abuse and trauma, he was cradling her on his lap, both of them topless. “Babies need a lot of skin-to-skin contact,” he had said. This was how it began.
Today, Asha, whose name has been changed, is sitting at her kitchen table beneath a trailing spider plant, her garden bright behind the window. She’s in her 40s now, mint-green cardigan, curly hair pinned at her temples. She talks very carefully, in the low, liquid voice I associate with people who have learned, painfully, how to make themselves understood.
Though therapy once carried a certain stigma, public attitudes have shifted since the collective mental health struggles of the pandemic. It’s no longer seen as a last resort in crisis but instead a common tool for mental-health maintenance, which means the number of people seeking therapeutic treatment has risen significantly. Services in England received a record 5m referrals during 2023, up 33% from 2019; in 2026, around 44% of women and roughly 29% of men in the UK had tried it. But according to a report by the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP), two in five don’t know how, or if, their therapists are regulated, and the chances are that they are not. In the UK, both “clinical psychologist” and “drama therapist” are among a list of protected professional terms. But “psychotherapist”, “psychoanalyst”, “therapist” and “counsellor” aren’t, meaning that while there are several professional bodies that maintain voluntary membership registers and apply codes of ethics and practice, there is no statutory regulation.'
rosehymnofthemissing | 10 hours ago
For survivors of sexual trauma or abuse by professionals and | or institutional betrayal, be aware this article is detailed - serious content warning.
The article describes repeated acts and crimes of sexual abuse, psychological abuse, and manipulation.
I'm a survivor, and I can handle a lot of disturbing stuff, not often affected by the "bad things" I may read.
This affected me. The horror and disgust I feel currently. Ew, ew, ew, EW.
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https://archive.ph/GZfyr
[OP] TheObserverUK | 18 hours ago
'One evening, in a bright room about 10 minutes north of Brighton beach, Asha’s therapist told her to suckle on his arm. She had started seeing Gerald Peck a few weeks earlier, in the summer of 2020, when she had found herself struggling with her mental health. “In our first meeting he said, ‘Why didn’t you come sooner?’” she told me recently.
Peck, who was in his 70s, with a smooth bald head, white moustache and boxer’s nose, explained that he used a kind of “regressive therapy” that allowed “younger parts of yourself to emerge,” allowing them to be healed. He told Asha he worked “until he was holding your tiny infant self, and then your foetal self – helping you heal wounds from your very, very early life.” It was the beginning of the pandemic. Asha was lonely and in pain and “needed some healing,” she told me. That was why, soon after she had detailed to him her complex history of abuse and trauma, he was cradling her on his lap, both of them topless. “Babies need a lot of skin-to-skin contact,” he had said. This was how it began.
Today, Asha, whose name has been changed, is sitting at her kitchen table beneath a trailing spider plant, her garden bright behind the window. She’s in her 40s now, mint-green cardigan, curly hair pinned at her temples. She talks very carefully, in the low, liquid voice I associate with people who have learned, painfully, how to make themselves understood.
Though therapy once carried a certain stigma, public attitudes have shifted since the collective mental health struggles of the pandemic. It’s no longer seen as a last resort in crisis but instead a common tool for mental-health maintenance, which means the number of people seeking therapeutic treatment has risen significantly. Services in England received a record 5m referrals during 2023, up 33% from 2019; in 2026, around 44% of women and roughly 29% of men in the UK had tried it. But according to a report by the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP), two in five don’t know how, or if, their therapists are regulated, and the chances are that they are not. In the UK, both “clinical psychologist” and “drama therapist” are among a list of protected professional terms. But “psychotherapist”, “psychoanalyst”, “therapist” and “counsellor” aren’t, meaning that while there are several professional bodies that maintain voluntary membership registers and apply codes of ethics and practice, there is no statutory regulation.'
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https://observer.co.uk/style/features/article/i-was-abused-by-my-therapist-how-treatment-turned-to-betrayal